Then Versus Now

When I visited Los Angeles a few years ago, all I could think about was how independent everyone lived. It seemed like everyone lived in a sort of bubble away from everyone. If you did not want to interact with another person, you didn’t have to. How many other places are like this in the United States? People just get in their cars everyday and go from their home to work and back home again. It does not surprise me why parents are scared to have their kids play outside and the lack of knowledge neighbors have of one another. No one knows each other anymore. There is no sense of togetherness and unity amongst people that live in a community. Is there even such thing as a “community” anymore?

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I always hear my grandparents say, “Everyone use to know everyone.” I grew up hearing stories of my parents getting in trouble because their teacher would seek out my grandparents at church on Sunday and explain something they did wrong during that school week. This would probably be very rare now. When and why did this change? It seems that people use to be at the forefront of a community. People use to define a community and make it what it was. Now, a community seems to be labeled on geographic constrictions. We define our community by our zip code. We have fallen out of touch with our surroundings and the people that make up the area we live in. This can have several repercussions. Our community can be safer, more economically resilient, our children can have a better future, and many other factors can come about if we try to strengthen our communities.

Growing up in the suburbs, this sense of “unattached community” was all around me. I walked to school when I was older and played outside with the neighbors that were the same age as me, but this was pretty much the only interaction I got with my community. I was involved with church and band, but this only included certain people in the community and definitely wasn’t very diverse. We had a community center with a swimming pool, tennis courts, and community events. Sounds great, right? It was great, if you could afford to pay a membership fee every month. I grew up always wanting to go to the swimming pool because people at my school went or going to a concert that was coming there. But, the people that could afford to use it were the only ones who used the community center. This definitely didn’t create a unified community.

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John McKnight and Peter Block’s article, “Abundant Community,” brings up the idea that our lives would be more fulfilled if we created a community amongst each other. They argue that seven elements create an abundant community and help everyone in all areas of their lives. These elements bring up very important factors that not all communities possess. One of the elements that stuck out to me was “we are local people who must raise our children.” This was a very interesting point to make in our current communities, if they are communities at all. The writers say that we pay professionals that do not even know our children, to raise them. It used to be that family members or close neighbors would raise our children. Now, we are so out of touch     with people around us, we don’t allow our children to be immersed in our surrounding areas. I kind of took this element differently than what they describe. I think of it as how children use to be outside from the moment they came home from school until darkness or dinner was ready. I barely see children playing outside anymore, if at all. There are a lot of reasons this has happened, but a major one is that no one knows each other anymore. And if people in a community do not know each other, there is no trust. Parents do not trust the people in their neighborhood to look out for their children and therefore do not let the children play outside, away from their parent’s awareness. Children miss out on so many things because of the lack of trust in their communities. They miss out on meeting people different from them. They miss out on learning about where they live and the beauty that is all around them. They miss out on being independent and making up games in the street. 

Even though this element is only one of seven, I think it paints a picture of what McKnight and Block are trying to accomplish with this article. They end the article by saying, “when we fail, no organization or government can succeed.” This is a very powerful statement. Is it true? How can we make sure that an abundant community becomes relevant today?

I started thinking about current situations that could be defined as communities in today’s terms, and in McKnight and Block’s terms. I thought of university and college campuses and of retirement communities. The video clip is pretty cheesy, but it puts the idea of retirement communities into plain terms. Basing off of the seven elements of an abundant community, it seems that retirement communities possess most of these. Is this the future of our communities? Fake, and pre-structured places of living? 

This piece of literature talks about how retirement communities historically came about and the need that the elderly population needed this sense of community. They would rather live in these places with people acting, looking, and living exactly as they do. But, these might be the future of “community”, as we know it, if we do not start changing how we live. We are missing out on important and life changing aspects because we, as citizens, are not making an abundant community a priority. 

John McKnight and Peter Block's website is also a useful tool to learning more about the "Abundant Community."

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Links to go more in-depth on the issues:

An article from the "LA Times" about the history of some retirement communities and the progress they have made over the years.

A short bio on John McKnight and what he is currently involved in at Northwestern University.

Blog posts by John McKnight and Peter Block in association with the "Huffington Post."